A Family's Pilgrimage
Perhaps it occurred during a naive moment as a teenager, or through the subtle choices of faith over doubt in college, but somehow along the way I committed every major decision in life, every fork in the road, even the little things day to day, to lead me closer to God. Today that decision leads my family and me to Honduras. Journey with us as we seek to meet Jesus in the faces of the poor and live in a sacred place, whether in Tegucigalpa, Seattle, or Paris.
Monday, January 30, 2012
The Twilight of Childhood
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Moving Back
Last June on our fundraising trip to the United States it became apparent that God was calling us back to the United States and back to Washington Cathedral.
When we moved to Honduras four years ago, it was without a return date. We sold and gave away everything we had in the States (which wasn’t much). When asked, we told people our plan was to serve in Honduras 3 – 5 years, then we would reassess (but in our hearts, we were thinking more like 10 years).
Then last year something began happening that surprised us. God began whispering “pastor” to Rey….and he didn’t know quite what to do with that. In June 2011, church leaders met with us and they asked us to come back and help – long term.
We called Pastor Jeony from the United States and tears came to my eyes as he generously and without hesitation encouraged us to go….if the church needs us, then we must. Honduras is a country that tops the lists of violent crime worldwide. It has more problems than it knows what to do with. And it has become home.
In three weeks we will pack our bags and board a plane, as we are so accustomed to….but this time to stay. I think I can speak for my family when I say that our heart strings are too entangled to figure out which to loosen, which to firm up and tie more tightly. The good news is that we are keeping our house here in Honduras, and our jobs require us to come back a couple times a year.
But this family’s pilgrimage will certainly look different…May God be venerated.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Holidays in Honduras
Monday, April 25, 2011
The North American's Guide to Semana Santa in Teguc
Things couldn’t be more different here in Tegucigalpa. Instead of protesting the differences, I decided to fuse the two customs together this year into a new Diaz family tradition. Here’s how it worked out for me, and my guide to celebrating Semana Santa in Honduras for North Americans.
DO:
Think ahead when it comes to dying eggs. Thinking ahead means asking someone to bring you an egg decorating kit from the US (because it will be cheaper than buying from Mas x Menos). Thinking ahead means boiling the eggs ahead of the day you want to do it…because the likelihood of power-outages is quite certain in my community.

DON’T
Go to one of the big, overplayed beaches. Last year we went to Los Delagitos in the South. It took an extra hour to get there because of the traffic….An hour trapped in the hot car, sweating out our need to go to the bathroom. It was so crowded with people, trash, thrashing music that a headache was always near. It was still fun, but we found a better option this year.
Expect to relax at the Mayan’s pool. This is one of my favorite spots because of $15 massages, ice-cream delivered pool side, and a beautiful environment to sun bathe. However, during Semana Santa my oasis becomes a latin frat party. There was a 20 foot tall blow-up corona and people videotaping girls in bikinis. My massage therapist rubbed my back to the beat of “Danza Kurudro” – the antithesis of relaxing.
DO
Check out Amapala. It’s not easy to get to the beach beach…You must park a ways away, board the hectic dock, crowd on to the right collectivo boat, and then jump in the back of the truck to arrive at one of the less-popular beaches (this takes roughly an hour). But it is worth it! I can’t reveal my secret spot, but I’ll give you a clue: it has black sand! The best part about it is that the moment we arrived on the uninhabited beach, a restaurant owner invited us to put our things down as his table under his make-shift tent. He asked what we would like for lunch, when we would like it, and our music preference. The water was perfect, the sand was perfect, and the company was perfect. It was a great day!
D
All in all, I discovered that my American tradition of decorating eggs and receiving things from the Easter bunny came from some pagan goddess of fertility (including the name, “Easter”). Yet “Pascua,” (as they call it here in Honduras), comes from the word Passover…the original holiday leading up to the resurrection of Christ. So perhaps I have some things to learn about this celebration.
So there is my guide to celebrating Semana Santa in Teguc (based on three years of experience). I would love to hear other expat comments about their experiencing during the days leading up to Pascua in Honduras.
Monday, January 31, 2011
Christmastime and Giving
A note of explanation here. Rey and I share the view that wealth and materialism and toys and things provide dangerous possibilities of entrapment. And greed (although one of the more popular cardinal sins) is actually idolatry. This being said, it was time to take radical action in Elijah’s development.
As presents began to accumulate under our plastic Christmas tree, Elijah began to get more and more excited. So one day I took him into his room and I said, “Elijah, look at all of your stuffed animals in your toy hammock. Look at all of your cars, books, trains, and action figures on your shelf. You know Yoli, Eibyn, Daniel and Jimmy at AFE? They don’t have any of those things. They don’t have any toys in their house. They don’t have a Christmas tree. They are not going to receive presents for Christmas.
"How about you give each of them one of your toys, since you have so many?”
A light dawned in his eyes. He promptly presented me with Bob (his favorite stuffed animal heasleeps with every night) and said: “Yoli.” Tears leaped into my eyes. I didn’t expect Elijah to understand this concept let alone display such generosity. So I did what many mothers would do. As Elijah was sorting through his toys, deciding which ones to give away, I snuck Bob underneath his bed instead of into the “AFE” box. Generosity should only go so far, right?
At AFE’s Christmas party Elijah handed out his toys to his friends. And came home with a new toy himself. Denis, (who most will know at AFE as “sweet little voice”) gave Elijah the one Christmas toy he received (from a donor), a “Mater” toy truck. And so the cycle goes. Generosity begets generosity. And we can’t out give God. And it sounds like I need to learn this lesson even more than Elijah.